Tomorrow I leave this beautiful country I have come to
love. It is a country that never ceases
to offer breathtaking vistas, diverse landscapes, and warm hospitality. Wherever I go, I see and feel the history of
this culturally rich country seeping from the walls of ancient churches, old
stone houses, worn steps (usually leading upward), uneven stone walkways,
museums, Roman ruins, narrow country roads.
I feel a connection to the past that cannot be experienced in my own
country, and I have been awed by it.
With all its beauty, Italy suffers greatly. It is in an economic crisis with no apparent
end in sight, along with several other southern European countries—Greece,
Spain, Portugal—and now it is said here that France begins the same
decline. Some of the financial crisis
has been created from within—corrupt government, overpaid politicians, Mafia in
various forms, industrial malaise, resistance to change, corruption in the
Vatican, all these have been mentioned to me by Italians as contributors to
Italy’s demise. But there is also blame
put on the European Union and Germany’s dominant influence of its
policies. History repeats itself, at
least in the eyes of many Italians. As one Italian put it, “Germany is winning
this war”. Italians are taxed to the
gills, and I haven’t met one who thinks that the transition to a common
currency was a good idea. Since I talk
mostly to people of my generation, I’m not sure if this opinion is shared
across generational lines.
I worry that this country’s historical treasures will
gradually deteriorate because there are insufficient funds for
maintenance. I worry that Italy will
lose its talented young people, their hope for the future, to other countries,
because they can’t find employment here.
The unemployment rate for young people is about 40%, according to one of
my Italian friends. Mostly, I worry that
the Italian people will sink into permanent apathy, because they have little
hope that anything will change. Their
hearts are heavy with sadness for their country which they deeply love. That is something that has impressed me
greatly, how proud Italians are of the richness of their heritage and the
diversity of their culture. I can only
pray that there is some ray of hope for the future that will help this country
find a road to recovery.
I spent six of my 10 months of travel here, and I leave
with a treasure of warm memories. Many
of these memories are connected to the friends I made through the penpal
website I found several months before I began this journey.
Tina and Donato
By inviting me into their homes, showing me
the wonderful sites in their provinces, introducing me to unique regional
cuisine, helping me with my struggling Italian, and opening their hearts to a
continuing friendship, they proved to be shining examples of Italy’s reputation
for warm hospitality.
Antonio and Antoinetta
I am deeply
grateful to call them friends.
Riccardo and Marina
In Sorrento, at the language school, I made two
wonderful friends from New Zealand and another from Switzerland.
Kathy and Michele from New Zealand and Isabelle from Switzerland
I
know I will see Kathy and Michele again, hopefully on a visit to their country in the coming
year, and maybe Isabelle, too, when I am in back in Europe.
There are also two fabulous expatriate American women
in Thailand who I now call friends that are attached to some equally warm
memories of my four months of travel in Southeast Asia.
Dolly with her husband Donald
Connie and I in Halong Bay, Vietnam
And I had a wonderful reunion with my young
American friend and met his lovely Thai girlfriend.
Scott and Gun with "Condon Man"
I’m certain that all these friendships will endure, and
I’m a richer person for them. I’ve been
very fortunate to tour some wonderful places, many of them World Heritage
sites, but it’s these people that will anchor my most treasured memories of
this journey.
And I'll not forget the time in Sorrento when my very good friend Grace from the U.S. came to visit me and arranged a surprise birthday dinner with new friends from Verona.
Grace and I with Donna and Blanche
And then there are the countless other people I’ve met on
this journey who have either helped me in some way or shared some experience
with me. Four couples I met along the way come immediately to mind.
Paul and Diana from Australia, who I met in Sorrento
Canadian couple Ray and Kelly who I met in Ko Samui, Thailand
Jack and Janice from Pennsylvania, who I met in Spello, Italy
Colin and Margie from South Africa, who I joined for a tour of Cortona, Italy
I’ve
also had some very nice landlords/landladies who were especially gracious to
me. Most amazing were these two women in Hanoi who nursed me back to health when I was suffering from a bad case of influenza.
Narelle and Dong from Hanoi, VietNam
During my second round of studying the Italian language in Florence, I made another friend.
Bernadette from Israel and I on a rainy day in Cinque Terre, Italy
I’ve learned a great deal about the cultures of the
countries I’ve visited, and my command of the Italian language is “enough”, as
my Ligurian friend describes it. It’s
been an enriching journey in many ways. People often ask me, "What place have you enjoyed most?" I've seen so many extraordinary and beautiful sights that it's a hard question to answer. But if you ask me, "What are your fondest memories?", you see them here. I return home with my heart full of gratitude for meeting these wonderful people who were so kind and generous to me and broadened my world perspective.
Thanks, also, to Ruth Golden Gelman, the original Female Nomad, who inspired me to venture into the world alone.
I'm looking forward to returning to the U.S.A. to reunite
with my family and friends. It seems
like forever since I’ve seen them. I
have plans to visit friends and family in Michigan, California, Virginia, and
Canada over the summer and early fall. I won’t be posting very often on this blog in the next few months; but, if
fortune continues to shine upon me, as it so generously has, I will resume my
travels abroad in mid-October. I have a return
ticket to Genoa and will spend a few more weeks in Italy, visiting my friends
and touring some additional provinces, and then who knows? I’m thinking of southern Spain and Portugal, a
return visit to Thailand to see friends there, and a first trip to New
Zealand. Somewhere in South America
would be nice, too (suggestions welcome), and then I have plans to meet my
friend Dolly from Bangkok in Provence, France in May.
So, I will likely be a nomad for another year!
My blog has had over 5,600 page views since last
September, from people in over a dozen countries. What surprises me most is that I get more page views now from Italy than I do from the U.S.! To all my family and friends who read it, I
hope you have enjoyed vicariously sharing this journey with me. To readers who are strangers to me, thank you
for your interest in my travels.
Arrivederci, bella Italia! A presto, U.S.A.